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Hi, I'm Alasha Bennett

As a relationship and dating coach, I'm all about helping my clients figure out what they truly want in their relationships and then taking the steps to make it happen.
For Individuals Seeking Partners

For all you folks out there who are flying solo, it's pretty clear that the dating game has done a 180 in the last decade. It's getting trickier to find someone who really fits the bill of what you're looking for in a relationship. That's where I come in. I'm here to help you put together your list of must-haves and then guide you through the whole dating scene to find that perfect match for you.
Couples Thinking About Tying The Knot

You know, when it comes to marriage, it's a call you want to make while fully knowing what you're getting into. By being intentional about making sure you and your partner are on the same page, you're increasing the odds of having a happy relationship. As your coach, I'll be here to assist both of you in spotting possible challenges, showing you how to work through disagreements, and guiding you through all the ups and downs you'll encounter as your relationship grows.
For All You Couples Out There

We all know that keeping your bond strong amidst the craziness of life isn't always a walk in the park. Figuring out how to handle the everyday hurdles and having the right tools to keep your connection rock-solid is key to making it work. Think of it like regular tune-ups to catch any problems before they become major roadblocks. As your coach, we'll dive into parts of your relationship that could use a bit of polishing so that your partnership can glide along with less friction.

My Commitment to Coaching You

I'm all about assisting you in achieving your individual and relationship aspirations. Whether it's in-person at my office, via video, or on the phone, your desired level of success is what drives me. I'm excited to explore this journey with you. Ready to give it a shot? Just click on one of the GET STARTED buttons below.


About Me


  • I am very satisfied with Alasha's couple and life coaching skills. She helped me speak up for myself in my marriage. She helped me to see that I was doing better than I gave myself credit for and she helped me to be better for my family overall.

    Sam Mackey Professional DJ
  • Alasha has great insight that is advanced and at the same time clear cut. She causes you to think about what she is saying and you want to apply the new understanding to your own situation. I always feel like, why didn't I think of that!

    Michelle Butler Assistant Manager
  • Alasha opens your mind and eyes to see yourself and new perspectives when it comes to dating. She poses questions that will stretch and challenge your beliefs and thoughts on dating and relationships. She inspires you to evolve. She is the heart whisperer.

    Leon Temple Minister, Author


  • Finding the right relationship means leaving behind the fantasy about who your future partner could be and focusing more on understanding your needs.

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  • Starting off on the right foot is essential to the health and success of a union. Take the steps before the vows are spoken to prepare for and enjoy a lasting love.

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  • Navigating through the growing phases of a union and transitioning to a higher level of love is more satisfying when both people work together as a team.

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