How long do you want to be married? It seems like a strange question to ask. Forever, is the obvious answer. Yet, newly engaged couples rarely plan for forever. They go from the proposal straight to the wedding. They talk about how many kids they want, where and when they will start their family. They fantasize about growing old with one another and how they will never let anything come between them. What they forget to talk about is how they will accomplish it. The couple neglects to first, create the foundation that will hold all of those wonderful things together. They miss the mark by not making a Relationship Blueprint for their success.
What is a Relationship Blueprint?
Think of marriage as a team. The blueprint is the detailed outline that serves as the team’s master plan to follow. This master plan will help solve issues that will arise. It influences the decisions the couple makes in and around the relationship. Because the blueprint was made with the teams sound and logical mind, feelings will not take the place of the predetermined outcomes agreed upon. The team follows the game plan to reach their intended goals. Every team makes their own blueprint based on the desired outcome.